By Michele Cameron, Manager, Business Development, Eden Ritchie Recruitment
As a recruitment consultant reviewing resumes and seeing people’s LinkedIn profiles, I often wonder what are the drivers which make people change careers? Also what makes a person stay in the one job for a number of years?
I recently read a book by Jim Winner – Split Second Choice, The Power of Attitude. This book explains the cycles each of us go through when we make a major change in our careers. If you can learn to recognise these cycles, you may be able to work through them instead of repeating past mistakes. It helps you realise how important your own attitudes can lead to a situation.
When you start a new role or join a new company you are in the first phase of “excitement” living the dream and commitment. After a few learning challenges you may then experience “frustration” and move through emotions of – shock, denial, fear, anger, justification and acceptance. When we reach this point, we start “looking.” This is when we end up repeating the cycle.
Or the other option is realising our emotions and instead of “looking”. We can reassess and “recommit” to the original dream and goal. It’s about re-dreaming the dream, having short terms goals and a mentor to give you support or perspective on your goals.
- Frustration – shock, denial, fear, anger, justification and acceptance
- Looking ….. OR ….. Recommitment
These stages identify significant patterns that influence every aspect of our lives. These patterns eventually become habits for us and often are followed with no conscious thought. However, by being aware of these patterns, you can take control of the behaviour they cause, and find connections to the solutions that make these patterns work for you, instead of against you.
This simple framework encourages us to learn how to identify the decision point, make the right choice, and be successful in all our endeavours.
As John Maxwell says: Motivation determines what we will do, and Attitude determines how well we will do it. Commitment determines when we will do it, and Recommitment determines whether we keep on doing it.
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